Thursday, December 31, 2009

“What manner of men ought ye to be”

all the new year talk has got me thinking…actually wishing….actually wanting

to be a better person….i am desperate to know if i will be able to handle my coming life

i know that at some times in our life it is important to be PRESENT…live in the PRESENT

and i think that if i could do that now my mind would be less of a  wreck…i would be better for it…yet

i feel my mind wandering and wondering to/about the future and what it holds…..

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because this blog holds my journal i add the talks i’ve given in church to it

we spoke a couple of weeks ago and i want to start the new year remembering

what I should be

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3Ne 27:27 “What manner of men ought ye to be?”

And the answer “Even as I am”

More holiness give me…
More strength to o’er come,
More freedom from earth-stains,
More longing for home.
More fit for the kingdom,
More used would I be,
More blessed and holy—
More, Savior, like thee.

Or

I’m trying to be like Jesus; I’m following in his ways.
I’m trying to love as he did, in all that I do and say.
At times I am tempted to make a wrong choice,
But I try to listen as the still small voice whispers,
“Love one another as Jesus loves you.
Try to show kindness in all that you do.
Be gentle and loving in deed and in thought,
For these are the things Jesus taught.”

Each of these hymns clarify the most important work that we will do in this life..the actual purpose to our earthly mission

More Savior Like thee…to be like Jesus..to love as he did in all that we do and say

Yet each psalm states explicitly that we

MUST DO…

in order to obtain what is in the end our goal of becoming like Him

We must:

Continue to strengthen our testimonies in order to o’er come, we must keep ourselves FREE from earth stains, we must love as he did, we must listen to the spirit, we must perform good deeds, & continue in kindness always

President Henry B. Eyring stated “Love is the motivating principle by which the Lord leads us along the way towards becoming like Him, our perfect example. Our way of life, hour by hour, must be filled with the love of God and love for others. There is no surprise in that, since the Lord proclaimed those as the first and great commandments. It is love of God that will lead us to keep His commandments. And love of others is at the heart of our capacity to obey Him.”

President Ezra Taft Benson said about Christ’s marvelous example: “Nearly two thousand years ago a perfect Man walked the earth—Jesus the Christ. … In His life, all the virtues were lived and kept in perfect balance; He taught men truth—that they might be free; His example and precepts provide the great standard—the only sure way—for all mankind”

Can we not find the love for him in our souls which will lead us to keep his commands ?

Can we after knowing all that he is & has given to & for us disobey the Great Command to LOVE one another…

President Howard W. Hunter helps us to understand the path “This Righteousness must start in our own individual lives. It must be incorporated into family living. Parents have the responsibility to follow the principles of the gospel of Jesus Christ and teach them to their children. Religion must be part of our living. The gospel of Jesus Christ must become the motivating influence in all that we do. There must be more striving within in order to follow the great example set by the Savior if we are to become more like him. This becomes our great challenge”

First as an individual

Pray for the humility to tame your pride

Pray for optomisim no matter how difficult the present

Pray for determination & confidence

next

As Husbands and Wife

we should Pray

for the love which allows you to see the good in your companion

for the love that makes weaknesses and mistakes seem small.

for the love to make your companion’s joy your own.

for the love to want to lessen the load and soften the sorrows of your companion

Next as

Fathers & Mothers

we should Pray

For the patience which will allow our children’s spirits to be easy

For the courage to teach what is not always popular

For the strength to hold our children with our faith

Did you notice the common thread in those statements

Pray or Prayer

Where do we find our example for prayer

Like in all aspects of our life let us look to the saviors example, follow me to Mark 1 :35 And in the morning, rising up a great while before day, he went out, and departed into a solitary place, and there prayed.

Or

Luke 5:16

And he withdrew himself into the wilderness, and prayed

Luke 9:28

And it came to pass about an eight days after these sayings, he took Peter and John and James, and went up into a mountain to pray.

Yet again

Luke 22

32 But I have prayed for thee, that thy faith fail not: and when thou art converted, strengthen thy brethren.

And those are just a few of the scriptural witness to the Saviors constant and continued prayers for direction, strength, guidance, & even in behalf of those whom he loved

Who can forget the Saviors final recorded mortal prayer

“father forgive them, for they know not what they do”

Or later when visiting this continent we read

3 Nephi 17:17

“And no tongue can speak, neither can there be written by any man, neither can the hearts of men conceive so great and marvelous things as we both saw and heard Jesus speak; and no one can conceive of the joy which filled our souls at the time we heard him pray for us unto the Father.”

In my life I have witnessed many such soul filling moments

First when I was 16 and a prayer given in behalf of my chemo riddled mother helped ease her into an assured calm & eventually to a miraculous recovery

Later when I was a young bride facing the loss of my first pregnancy & prayer healed the endless ache in my heart.

And more recently as I witnessed a prophetic confirmation prayer, giving a dying man the assurance that through his example his wife & son whom he would soon leave behind in the world would eventually be babtized & He would have the opportunity to live with them again

And after we have endeavored to pray as our great example has taught us we must remember the promise given in 3 Nephi: “And all thy children shall be taught of the Lord; and great shall be the peace of thy children.”

Great shall be our peace if we do all that we can & must. Slowly we will feel the evidences that we are moving along the road to becoming more like Jesus. It will help us remember how we have felt, at times, like a little child, even in the midst of cares and trials.

Let us live as if we were singing;

I’m trying to be like Jesus I’m following in his ways I’m trying to love as he did in all that I do and say

Let our lives declare with determination. Jesus Christ was is our example. To be like Him is our fixed goal. And let our looks and shining eyes convinced others that we have no doubts. We expect to succeed. We believe that the instruction of the Savior to be perfect was not a hope but a command. And we are sure He has prepared the way.

I bear testimony that the way is sure, we can follow Jesus & be like him. I know that he gives us no commandment that we cannot follow thus we can be like him I testify that prayer can and will help us in our endeavors & we will find as we try that the path will become more joyous and easy as we love others more than we try to satisfy our mortal desires our lives will become full. I know that Jesus is the Christ & I trust in him and those whom he has anointed to lead us and guide us down the path that will in turn reunite us with Him & our families forever

 

Monday, December 28, 2009

Funny Monday

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the funniest thing happened yesterday….

We were driving home from church when the rarest of Washington occurrences hit us…..THE SUN flooded the car windows. Emme got so excited by its appearance that she just HAD to let the window down. As she was basking in the cool breeze with a side of warm sun we came to a stop light, where we heard her say

“hello guy..you have a BIG MOOSTASH”

the Mr. & I immediately looked back and to the left where we saw a man in a large truck with a rather large mustache…fortunately for us despite the lovely weather he had refrained from rolling his window down…with a swift flick of a switch the little princess’ window was back to an upright position & locked into place by the Don…..later at lunch……………

Jaxson leaned over to Emeline & said “ you know Emme some people can’t help it if they have MOOSTASHES, it’s not nice to point it out !”

your turn

your turn

your turn

**note from the author**

we did explain to Jax that people could indeed help it if they have mustaches, although if the person was a women self restraint may be in order….our rule on the point is general refrain from the noticing of others outward appearances…. a rule that has saved us from posting funnies after every time we go out

for my own outward apperance story check here

Sunday, December 27, 2009

Last weekend

I got one of the best presents…you can read about it here

she came and among other things she took incredible family pictures while i freaked out about my kids being CRAZY..i dunno how she put up with it but we came away with a few good shots if I do say so myself

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jaxson 1 part b&w emme part b&wchaucer 2a liam 5 part b&w

wanna see more……..or get some of your own

CLICK HERE

or

CLICK HERE

Friday, December 25, 2009

the loot

this year Christmas was good to the kiddos

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can you see Liam

**hint** he is the blur you see between Jaxson & Emeline

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the boys only dream for Christmas was a Nintendo DS…well the Grandparents DELIVERED!

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and we haven’t seen them since

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Emeline got the most darling set of BOY/GIRL twins

{she leaned into me after snuggling on the them a minute & whispered “MOM they smell sooooo good”…i whispered back “ i know, so do real babies” }

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no words necessary…it’s written all over her face

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later after the princess’s were situated

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the boss’ get him tired for naptime{er}

Thursday, December 24, 2009

a Christmas Eve to remember

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the Characters

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Emeline as our Mary…Joseph { Liam}…Jax & the Boss {wise men}….Don Angelo { inn keeper & shepherd….Mom { narrator}…

the nativity

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last year & again this year we’ve found ourselves alone on Christmas…well alone as much as a family of 6 soon to be 8 can every be….

I really long for the cozy warmth of my mothers home on Christmas Eve

there is always

The Polar Express

The Poor Little Baby Jesus

and of course

the Christmas pageant

this year we tried to create a bit of the feeling we’ve always simply basked in at Grandma's house

the kids had fun in our very very brief performance

and after

finishing the Best Christmas Pageant Ever

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Wednesday, December 23, 2009

Ginger bread houses 2009

i’m dreamin’ of a white christmas with every….blog i read

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I really don’t mind not having snow for Christmas…

life is just much easier without it…especially when your belly protrudes so far your feet have become a distant memory

all the same the few days before Christmas i do miss the snow….this year Washington provided a White Christmas of it’s own !

and since you’ve all shared your snow pictures here’s a sample of my White Christmas

Tuesday, December 15, 2009

Christmas Programs

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it was very funny…the week before he came home every day from school with a new JOKE…not the funny kind… the 1st grader kind…the ones you don’t get but in your heart you know you must laugh at in order to save the tender feelings of the jokester child……come to find out these jokes were provided by some adult involved in the program ‘cause the program took regular joke breaks….LOL!

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Liam’s program was a version of if you take a mouse to the movies…..those are ears on his head

He was a total ham every time he saw the camera up no matter what was going on he waved and smiled…perfect !

Monday, December 14, 2009

our GREEN CHRISTMAS

 

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The Mr. has been bringing home large rolls of plans from work…which we’ve used for all sorts of color/crafting…’cause the back to these plans are blank

so this year we decided to make our own wrapping paper

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a few potatoes… a little bit of paint…four giggling kidos

MADE a great WRAPPING paper party

Monday, December 7, 2009

Funny Monday

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look who showed up at a repair shop near us

Tow-Mater

the kids loved seeing this life size replica…it was a blast listening to all the banter from the back seat

then Emeline said

i wish they had

lightning THE queen

she wouldn’t give either it drives the boys nuts that she thinks his name is lightning THE queen

Friday, December 4, 2009

FWD Friday

if you have a

star wars

fan in the homelike… i do this promises to make them

laugh

and after the 100th or so time you

insane

enjoy!

http://instantchewbacca.com/

 

Thursday, December 3, 2009

The Twinkies!

I’m about to write something i

never dreamt of writing

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I got a modeling

gig….

LOL.. okay… well…. I’m an Ultrasound model…so i guess it’s the twins gig

Phillips happens to be a few miles away & they needed ultrasound models

so…

we got some great pics of the twins

ENJOY!

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Baby A {the Boy}

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Baby B {the girl}

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Wednesday, December 2, 2009

oh man…

i fell on the frosty

porch…and just look at

the damage

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Monday, November 30, 2009

Funny Monday

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I have been kind of down lately

I’m really nervous about the twins

I’ve been missing family & friends

one day when the Mr. arrive home I was explaining to him how I’d said something that I didn't really mean to a lady in our new ward..something to the affect that this pregnancy seems kind of like a trial…

“I really don’t feel that way, I’m just tired and nervous about being a good Mom to all of them you know” I explained to my spouse

his response

“ it is a trial…they all are…in fact they should really change that song to…..”

“I am a trial from God”

Well this had it’s intended affect

I couldn’t stop giggling as he continued singing with vigor

thank you Mr. Carvajal

a little comic relief goes along way

your turn

your turn

your turn

Monday, November 9, 2009

FUNNY MONDAY

 

Three Funny things said yesterday

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Jaxs “The Fatter the mom, the better the food !”

{this was meant as a complement for a delish Sunday diner…LOL}

Emme “yesterday, I saw two Emelines in a car and I said what’s up Emeline’s”

 

Emme “this little hair bow makes me look smokin’ hot mom”

{gasp…where did this come from?}

 

now you.make me laugh.please

Thursday, November 5, 2009

Making a PUMPKIN pie from a PUMPKIN

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I will never buy canned pumpkin again…if i can help it

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simply the best pumpkin puree…which resulted in simply the best pumpkin PIE

instructions

cut the whole pumpkin in half

remove the seeds { save them they make a great snack with the right embellishments}

place the halved pumpkins

rind up flesh down on a greased cookie sheet

at   350 for about an hour

or until the rind is soft when poked

scoop the softened flesh out with a ice cream scoop and blend

YIPPEE

the best freshest pumpkin puree

{pumpkin pancakes are also delish with this}

after writing this post I think pumpkin pancakes are a must…like right now

so CIAO

only use sugar pumpkins or bread pumpkins

the best ones are the ones that seem heavy for there size and have very little bruising or scaring on the rind

 

Wednesday, November 4, 2009

Thanks Giving Post #2

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I am grateful I get to wake

up

in THIS home looking at

THIS landscape

don’t you just love the way

the fog rests above the

trees…it’s foggy every

morning here & i must

admit

I LOVE IT

 

Tuesday, November 3, 2009

Thanks Giving Post #1

I had a couple of Liam's school shirts in the laundry during his shirt mutilation...we still have a couple of good school shirts, Thanks for the inspiration to delay my laundry one more day!

It's our ANNIVERSARY

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and what a ride
I can honestly say everyday I wake up and give thanks for my marriage
I am blessed beyond reason
I am married to the man of my dreams...


the tribute above is fitting as my Love is always in the mood for some good Disco

HAppY AnNIvERsARy TO uS !!!

Monday, November 2, 2009

Funny Monday...trying to see the humor

"Liam why is there a hole in your new school shirt?"

" 'cause I cut holes in all my new shirts...I don't like them
anymore...except i didn't cut my star wars shirt"

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we are also dog sitting until tomorrow....and the dog has pooped on my
floor 3 times this morning..chewed up my slippers..and my garden
clogs....thank goodness the dog goes home tomorrow...

now what to do about Liam

Sunday, November 1, 2009

a PICTURE full post….maybe only Grammas need browse

Obi-Wan

{the remake}

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Sir Sherlock Holmes

{man of mystery…and a huge THANK YOU to mi amiga }

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Sleeping Beauty

{anything with a long blonde wig would have done}

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DUMBO

{nothing to say…just…CUTIE PIE}

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the Twins went as itty bitty

Skeleton’s

{i joined in since….. they are inside me}

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the candy crazed troops on the 3rd Day of

FESTIVITIES

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Halloween was good to us this year…….i plan on blogging a bit more…i’m back from Utah…and as rested as possible…and i got a few things to say so

STAY TUNED